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3 Weight Loss Mistakes Making You Feel Hopeless (And How To Fix Them)

“How do I get rid of this hopeless feeling that I’ll never lose weight?” Losing weight is one of those things that doesn’t happen overnight.  And when you think you’ll [...] Read More

The Top 11 Reasons Why You Don’t Want to Lose Weight

“Why do I not want to lose weight?” I know that might seem like an odd question, but it’s one I’ve heard a lot lately. I’ve never met anyone who [...] Read More

Can I Lose Weight by Eating Whatever the Hell I Want?

If you want to lose weight, you have to eat healthy and exercise, right? Wrong.  You can eat whatever the hell you want, whether it’s “healthy” or not, and still [...] Read More

How to Find a Weight Loss Coach: The Definitive Guide

It’s no secret that losing weight is hard, and without someone to help guide, support, and motivate you along the way, it can feel downright impossible. So, it makes sense [...] Read More

This is Why You Don’t Want to Workout (5 Mistakes to Avoid)

You’ve probably heard that exercise is good for you. But still, if you don’t enjoy going to the gym and you’re always asking, “Why am I so unmotivated to workout?” then there’s [...] Read More

How To Change Your Eating Habits For Life: 5 Expert Secrets

Have you ever tried to kick an eating habit, only to find that the harder you try, the worse it gets? I know I have. For me, it was always [...] Read More

7 Unbeatable Ways to Lose Weight (as Fast as Possible)

I get asked a lot of questions about losing weight, but here’s one of the most common: “I’m desperate. How can I lose weight fast?” While the idea of going [...] Read More

How to gain self-control over food (and lose weight)

So you want to eat less, but the food is just too good. (You know what I’m talking about.) If you’re like me, you probably have a lot of self-control [...] Read More

What to do when you’re hungry, but on a diet.

It’s 8 PM. You’re hungry and want a snack, but you have 10 more pounds to lose. You’ve told yourself that this time is going to be different, but your [...] Read More

I’m desperate to lose weight, but nothing works!

One could say that losing weight is a pretty straightforward process… You have to be in a calorie deficit, which means burning more calories than you consume. And, if we [...] Read More

What to do when you’re not hungry, but want to eat.

Have you ever been in a situation where you just finished a meal, and you know you’re not hungry… But you get an overwhelming urge to eat something else? You [...] Read More
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How do I stop eating my kid’s leftovers?

If you’re not a parent, you have no idea how difficult it is to resist your kid’s leftovers… Pizza. Chips. Chicken nuggets. But, as a parent, you know all too [...] Read More

Keeping a food diary: Is it worth it?

If you’ve ever tried to lose weight, you’ve probably heard that keeping a food diary is a must. But is that true?  When it comes to diaries, people tend to [...] Read More

How To Not Be Hungry On A Diet

Sticking to a diet is hard if you’re always fighting hunger. So is there a way to stop feeling so hungry all the time? By now, I’m sure you’ve heard [...] Read More

How do I remind myself to eat healthy?

Most people start the day wanting to eat healthy. But if it doesn’t stay top of mind, it’s easy to forget. So wouldn’t it be nice if you had a [...] Read More

How do I get excited about working out?

If you’re asking, “How do I get excited about working out?” I’ll show you why you’re not looking forward to it and, more importantly, how to bring back the fun… [...] Read More

How do you stay motivated when weight loss is slow?

If you’re wondering how to stay motivated when your weight loss slows down…here are five surefire strategies you need to put in place. Let’s face it, most of us want [...] Read More
How to stop a binge in progress

How to stop a binge in progress.

You’ve been keeping an eye out for all the usual triggers… …and you did what you could to dodge another binge… But somehow, you find yourself smack dab in the [...] Read More

“Everything in moderation.” Terrible advice or the best way to beat cravings?

“Everything in moderation” isn’t always good advice. And sometimes indulging is the worst thing you can do. Because if you’re not using the right strategy, giving in won’t make your [...] Read More

Weekends ruining your diet? How to stop overeating and end the Mon-Thur diet.

You can stop weekend overeating (and stop ruining your diet). But not by winging it. You need a different approach. Win Saturday and Sunday when you follow this 5-step plan. [...] Read More

How to resist the temptation sitting in front of you… Conquer cravings the “Marie Kondo” way.

If sugar-free evenings are torture… If you feel like you have ZERO control over your cravings… Then this email is for you. I’ll share a simple technique to change how [...] Read More

The “Speed Bump” method: How to stop eating just because it’s there…

What if I told you there’s an easy way to stop eating junk food just because it’s there… …a way that has nothing to do with dumping bags of chips [...] Read More

Gratitude: The Secret of Happiness (And Weight Loss Success)

The relationship between gratitude and weight loss success may just be one of the most important ideas I share with you. But first, picture this: You’re sprinting to get ready [...] Read More

How To Change Eating Habits (Permanently)

Do you want to build habits that last? Then don’t skip this step. (The funny thing is — everyone does.) But before we dive in, let me say. This isn’t the [...] Read More

I don’t have time to go to the gym. What can I do?

Can’t find time for the gym? Scrambling to fit a workout in your already slammed schedule? This post is for you. Today, I’m going to share one of my favorite [...] Read More
What is the best way to lose weight sitting at a desk for 8 hours?

What is the best way to lose weight sitting at a desk for 8 hours?

Chained to a keyboard and no time to workout? If you’re looking to get fit, but can’t escape the glow of your monitor, I’ll show you how to lose weight [...] Read More
Can't stick to a diet?

Can’t stick to a diet for more than a few weeks? Here’s why and what to do.

If you can’t stick to a diet for more than a few weeks, this is for you. Are you saying to yourself, another year has come and gone, and… I [...] Read More
You've tried going it alone. Now try with a coach.

5 Incredibly Smart Reasons Why You Need A Virtual Weight Loss Coach

When you’re looking to get fit, there are a few mistakes you simply need to avoid. But there’s one that’s glaringly clear: without someone keeping you accountable and consistent, it’s [...] Read More
Is it better to eat before or after working out?

Is it better to eat a meal before or after I workout? Why?

On your way to the gym? Wondering if you should eat a meal before or after your workout? Today, I’m going to show you exactly when to eat to get [...] Read More
I cheated on my diet and feel guilty. Now what?

Cheated on your diet? Feeling guilty? Here’s what to do!

You had a moment of weakness, caved in, and had a slice (or three) of cake. You cheated on your diet and feel terrible about it. What do you do [...] Read More
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Portion Distortion: How This Sneaky Effect Can Destroy Your Diet

You may be surprised to learn your portion sizes are holding your scale hostage. Why? Because over the last two decades, restaurants and food companies have increased portions so much [...] Read More
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5 Ways To Deal With (And Prevent) Diet Saboteurs

When you’re trying to get fit it feels like everything and everyone is working against you. But guess what? You’re not alone! More than 75% of women say they “never” [...] Read More
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9 Clever Ways To Conquer Food Cravings

We all have lustful treats calling our name. It could be mint chocolate ice cream after dinner or Monday morning donuts. Whatever temptation is hijacking your best intentions, one thing [...] Read More
Every time I try to lose weight I fail.

Every time I try to lose weight I fail. (Here’s what to do!)

With so many diets, plans, and programs to choose from, why is it that every time I try to lose weight I fail? There are a few questions that plagued [...] Read More
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How To Use Outer Order To Create Inner Calm: 3 Simple Secrets From Gretchen Rubin

You already know a dozen big things you should do to improve your life. Exercise more. Eat healthier. Spend less time using technology. But instead of tackling those big tasks [...] Read More
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7 Steps To Crush All-Or-Nothing Thinking

Do these thoughts ever cross your mind? If I can’t give this 100% of my time and attention, then it’s not going to work. I am completely overwhelmed, I need [...] Read More
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9 Essential Reads For A Healthier You in 2019

I’m often asked which diet books I recommend for someone looking to get fit and start eating healthy. But…I suggest not reading diet-focused books at all! Why? Because starting down [...] Read More
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11 Weight Loss Tips For Insanely Busy Nurses

A nurse’s life is physically and emotionally demanding. The long days, endless nights, and constant chaos takes a toll. And with work and life both elbowing their way to the [...] Read More
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Should I Say Something to My Kid About Their Weight?

“I’m torn. Should I say something to my child about their weight, or just keep quiet?” If your kid is struggling with their weight, you’ve probably been tempted to say [...] Read More
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Weight Loss Coach: 11 Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore

So you’re thinking about hiring a weight loss coach. Great decision! Partnering with a weight loss coach is becoming more popular every day. Why is that? Because it works! With [...] Read More
i am always hungry

Why Am I Still Hungry After Eating? (Here’s What To Do!)

Do you spend most of your day hungry? Can you eat an entire meal and STILL feel like you can down another? If so, you may have said some of [...] Read More
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I Know What To Do, But I Don’t Do It (Here’s Why!)

I want to (No, I need to) lose weight. But there’s a problem… I know what to do, I just don’t do it. I know I need to eat healthier. [...] Read More
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How To Beat Weight Gain On Tamoxifen (A Success Story!)

If you are taking tamoxifen, you have A LOT of questions. And when it comes to weight loss, these two probably rank near the top: Will I gain weight on [...] Read More
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I Have ZERO Motivation To Lose Weight

“I don’t feel like starting a diet, I’m just not motivated.” Do you feel like a lack of motivation is holding you back? Like you could turn things around if [...] Read More
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Help! I Can't Stop Eating At Night

A lot of us eat really well all day, only to have our careful plans come crashing down at night. I get it—sometimes it just feels like your willpower is [...] Read More
how to stop cheating on your diet

How to not cheat on your diet

Do any of these sound familiar? You start your diet strong, but by 3 pm you’re turning the house inside out hunting for chocolate. It’s late at night and you [...] Read More
how to break a weight loss plateau

How do you break a weight loss plateau?

In the business of weight loss, working through plateaus is something we do daily. But what’s the solution for breaking a weight loss plateau? And how can we get the [...] Read More
Hate veggies? That's okay. We have you covered.

I don’t eat veggies. How can I lose weight?

Do you despise vegetables? Does the thought of eating broccoli, asparagus, mushrooms, or carrots make you cringe? Or worse: Has your hate for vegetables kept you from sticking to a [...] Read More
how to finally commit to your diet

How to finally commit to losing weight

Have you ever felt like you’re just not committed to your diet? …Maybe this is something you’re struggling with right now. If so, know that you’re not alone! At some [...] Read More
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How to stop saying, I’ll start my diet tomorrow!

Recently, I overheard someone say, “I start a new diet every Monday and on the first of every month!” While this is kind of hilarious, it also got me thinking: [...] Read More
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How to Eat Healthy at Chick-fil-A

Is Chick-fil-A healthy? You’ll hear mixed thoughts on this for sure. Some claim “Nothing good EVER came out of a drive-thru window!” And as great as that sounds in theory, [...] Read More
i just wanted to bury my head in food

I just wanted to bury my head in food!

My nerves were shot. All I felt like doing was eating a ton of indulgent food. I just wanted to escape. Yesterday, my youngest son Asher – who has been [...] Read More
the overconfidence trap

How overconfidence is sabotaging your weight-loss!

Have you hit a weight loss plateau? Or are the numbers on the scale moving in the wrong direction? If so, you’re not alone. At one point or another, we’ve [...] Read More
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If I can't be perfekt why bother?

There’s one destructive thought that I hear over and over: “If I can’t be perfect, why bother?” You know what people who say that do…nothing. They let one misstep turn [...] Read More
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Urge Surfing: A mindful way to conquer cravings!

Cravings are like waves. They rise, build to a peak, and eventually fall. We’re going to learn to ride those waves using a skill called Urge Surfing! Let’s jump in! [...] Read More
discomfort is your compass

How to be comfortable with discomfort

“Discomfort is your compass!” It’s amazing how those four words capture what’s likely THE most powerful concept of change. Here’s why: The only way to change your outcomes is to [...] Read More
how to stop quitting your diet

How to stop quitting your diet

Today, I want to share Stephanie’s story with you. Why? Because she wanted to quit her diet after the first week. …And she wanted to quit countless times after that. She [...] Read More
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What to do when you feel overwhelmed

I can’t tell you how many times someone has blamed their lack of commitment, and ultimately their health, on how busy they are. We’re all busy. I think it comes [...] Read More
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Identifying these will change your life

I’ve had a great day so far… I woke up and played with my kids. I did some work. I went to the gym. I enjoyed lunch with my family. [...] Read More
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I messed up already…2019 is my year!

If you feel that way, this article is for you: The One Mantra to Adopt If Weight Loss Is Your Goal in 2018. But… To those who are still committed to [...] Read More
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Should I wait until after the holidays?

I got this email from a client the other day, and I wanted to share it because I think we can all benefit. Here’s the email: “I am having second [...] Read More
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Don't let the "Holiday Effect" get the best of you

“Why bother eating well today, tomorrow, and Wednesday if I’m going to indulge on Thursday?” some of us think. Thanksgiving is on THURSDAY. It’s not today. It’s not tomorrow. It’s [...] Read More
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Proven exercise tips

In the 10 years I’ve been helping people develop healthy behaviors around food and exercise, I’ve found that most people truly want to exercise more to improve their health and [...] Read More
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The Power of M.P.H (Mindset, Psychology and Habits)

Think back to the last diet you did. Day one was easier than day 30, right? (If you made it that far) On day one, you’re filled with enthusiasm and [...] Read More
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The key to sustainable weight loss

I wanted to share my thoughts on long-term weight loss because I think we can all benefit, no matter where we are in our weight loss journey. I know long-term [...] Read More
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Is September your January? Read this.

I was thinking about resolutions last night and this video came to mind. It’s upbeat music with people doing amazing things. It’s hard not to feel motivated after watching it. [...] Read More
How to get more done

This simple practice will help you get more done

Ahhhh! The beginning of a new month. A blank slate loaded with nothing but potential. For the most part, we’re all very good at keeping our promises to other people [...] Read More
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I can't stand emails that start like this

Just writing these makes me annoyed. They start something like this: “Only looking for people who are 100% committed!” “Only want people who are serious about achieving results!” “Wanted: Highly [...] Read More
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How to become more observant

As a basketball fan, I always look forward to April, May and June as it’s NBA Playoff time. (As a Knicks fan, ugh, I… actually, I’ll save that for another [...] Read More
Eat whatever they want

Why can some people eat whatever they want and not gain weight?

Ugh! We all know these people. They can eat whatever they want and seemingly never gain an ounce. What’s up with that?? First off, it’s important to note: Some people [...] Read More

I'll do anything to lose weight except…

A prospective client once told me: I’ll do anything to lose weight except… Eat well and exercise. HA! Why? Ultimately, it boils down to fear. Fear that eating well and [...] Read More

The importance of LOL (I'm not talking about laughing out loud)

One of the things I’ve found in my never-ending quest to understand what makes successful people successful is how much support they have. (Along the way, I’ve encountered many people [...] Read More

What to do when focusing on your health feels like a chore

Focusing on my health feels like a chore. What do I do? I hear this often. Let’s explore… First off, I get it. You’re busy. You have a lot going [...] Read More

Abe Lincoln's Personal Mantra

I came across a quote of his I really liked. He said, “When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That is my religion.” [...] Read More

How do I stop eating at night and what to do about it

“How do I stop eating at night? What do I do about it?” I get this question a lot. This post will help you stop eating at night. “Food has [...] Read More
Tiny Feet

My son was born 3 months early. Here's what I've learned so far.

I haven’t written for a while. For good reason. I’m actually writing this from the NICU (Neo-intensive care unit). My son was born on Saturday, January 21st. Three months early. [...] Read More

How to create a weight loss breakthrough

He had a dream… And so do you. Here’s one of my favorite quotes: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are [...] Read More
Junk Food

Why it's so hard to turn down junk food

Happy Holidays! 🙂 Recently, I was shopping and I came across this sign. “Shopping in NYC is a challenge…You deserve a treat! Grab a .99 cent bag of candy!” Yes, [...] Read More

How to think about food differently

Want to think about food differently? Read this post. Here’s the challenge with food: Broccoli is food. Cookies are food. One is good for us. The other is not. (Yes, [...] Read More

This one thing I learned from the NYC Marathon is key for weight loss

Yesterday, I watched the NYC marathon from a bunch of different points along the 26.219 route. As usual, I saved the finish line for my last stop. This is where [...] Read More
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A fun read on relationships, weight loss and work

Can I be real with you guys? Good. I love real talk. I have some friends who are a bit delusional about the nature of relationships. I think Hollywood perpetuates [...] Read More
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How to start the school year right

How is it the end of August already? I’m trying to savor the last week by enjoying summer activities as much as possible like wearing matching bathing suits with my [...] Read More

How to stop thinking about food

I wanted to share a valuable lesson that can help you stop thinking about food. It can help you get over cravings. It can also help you stop thinking about [...] Read More

Frustrated it's taking so long to lose weight

There will always be a reason to delay action when it comes to our health and fitness. Do you know one of the many reasons why some people don’t start [...] Read More
Home Run Derby Winner

The power of small wins

Last night was the Home Run Derby – a fan favorite. The only goal of the Home Run Derby is to hit as many balls out of the park as [...] Read More

How to quit smoking

Recently, I was invited to speak at a conference about habits. Good times. Someone asked me for advice on how to quit smoking. I figured I’d share what I said [...] Read More
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How to increase the odds of getting things done

Ahhhh! June 1st. That means we have a blank slate loaded with nothing but potential. For the most part, we’re all very good at keeping our promises to other people [...] Read More
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Why having more fun will help you lose weight

Happy April Fools’ Day! I’m not going to play any pranks on us MBT-ers, nor do I have any vegetable jokes, so if you have one please lettuce know. (Ba-dum [...] Read More
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Do you eat well all day but lose control at night? Here's why and what to do about it.

The homo economicus view of human beings states that we think and choose unfailingly well, and we fit within the text book picture of economists. In other words: According to [...] Read More
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How to make a craving vanish like a fart in the wind

Temptations are everywhere! : ( What to do? Here in lies the question we all face: Do we listen to our short term or long term self when it comes [...] Read More
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"Why can't I lose weight?" Here's one reason why.

Without fail, whenever I meet someone and tell them what I do, the conversation turns to all of the diets they’ve done in the past, including the one they’re currently [...] Read More
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How to know if you're eating for the right reasons

How do you know if you’re eating for the right reasons? Ask yourself: Am I using this food or am I eating this food? Here’s what I mean. We tend [...] Read More
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One of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make

This is a really tough and personal post for me to write. But here it goes… Last week my 92 year old grandma had two massive strokes within two days. [...] Read More
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Why am I always hungry?

Many of you tell me how you always feel hungry. Let’s explore… First off, let’s ask ourselves this question while we’re thinking rationally: Is it possible to be hungry all [...] Read More
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How to get over feeling deprived when it comes to dieting

I feel like all I’ve been hearing about for the past few days is this $1.5 billion Powerball lottery. Some friends are playing and asked me if I wanted to [...] Read More
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My theme for 2016. What's yours?

Now that we’re back to life / back to reality (Warning: This is throwback to a classic song) I wanted to share my theme for the year. Every year, I [...] Read More